Be loser…
A message we all need to hear…
A message that can be easily forgotten with a single bad day.
“You know what a loser is? A real loser is somebody that’s so afraid of not winning, they don’t even try. Now, you’re trying, right? Well, then, you’re not a loser.“
Little Miss Sunshine (2006)
First, stop being so hard on yourself.
Feeling sorry for yourself won’t help, but understanding yourself will.
Courage is important, even if we don’t use it enough.
It means being scared but doing it anyway.
Being brave takes practice. Start with small steps; you don’t have to do everything at once.
Focus on one small task and finish it.
Then, pick another small task. Keep doing this, and it will become a habit.
The main idea is to act even when you’re scared.
Not to beat a dead horse – but then it can’t hurt either.
If you only focus on not being scared, you’ll never start.
To move forward despite fear, you need strong reasons for why you want to do it.
If your reasons are strong enough, you can beat your fears.
This takes time and practice, so be patient with yourself.
You might know this one:
Thomas Edison created 10,000 failed prototypes of his electric bulb before succeeding.
As he famously said,
“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”
Is there A “Loser Measurement?”
Humans love to rank others.
It feels good to be ahead of others, like we are all running a race together.
But this view is shallow.
Ranking people based on one thing is like expecting a fish to complete in a competition of climbing trees with a monkey.
The answer isn’t simple.
It depends on what you value: money, happiness in marriage, fun, family, job title, or overall wealth.
Success isn’t the same for everyone. Each person has unique strengths and situations that a simple ranking can’t show.
The real lesson?
Perseverance and continuous effort are what truly matter.
Even if you don’t come out on top in one area, your persistence in trying and growing in different parts of life means you’re never truly a loser.
If you want something you never had, you have to do something you have never done.
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